Wednesday, September 17, 2008 @11:39 PM
If we're unhappy, it's because life is not as we want it. Life is not matching our expectations of how it " ought" to be & so we're unhappy. ( just like Hao of shaman king! Omg i miss that anime ): )
So we say, " I'll be happy when..." Well, life is NOT perfect. Life is about being exhilarated, frustrated, sometimes achieving & sometimes missing out. So long as we say " I'll be happy when..." we're deluding ourselves.
Happiness is a decision. Many people live life as if someday they'll arrive at " happiness" like one arrives at a bus stop. They figure that someday everything will fall into place, they will take a deep breath & say, " Here i am at last... happy!" Hence their life story is one of " I'll be happy when..."
Each one of us has a decision to make. Are we prepared to daily remind ourselves that we have only limited time to make the most of what we've got, or will we while away the present, hoping for a better future?
team.